Your destiny is assured; therefore, everything that happens to you is carving you up for it. Don’t resist what happens as in resistance you increase the push towards your destiny. Good and bad things happen and unite to form your destiny. Nothing is lost in His cause. He is the controller of all things. The yin and the yang of life will happen as the balance will keep you on the straight and narrow path. When you pray you will not ask for the thing to be removed but that what it was sent for would bless you and keep you on the straight and narrow path. If there was no choice then we would be all like robots. In God’s plan, evil would be present for this purpose that good would be seen for what it is. Without the darkness, the light will not be needed. Darkness will be around you but you will still be the light that shines brightly in the darkness. When you can rest in the knowledge that your destiny is assured then you can accept all things that come your way. Nothing will be wasted. Everything will be assumed into the whole to make a beautiful tapestry of your destiny.
I worked as a Consultant Psychiatrist in UK and Australia for over 40 years.