Identity

Identity is the sense of our core being. We are known by who we are as a person. When we are secure in our identity, others will be able to relate to us, and we to them. A confused identity will reflect many aspects that make it difficult for a person to function. This could impact our personality and sexuality, and give rise to various disorders. Identity is developed over the years, and some have a smooth process while others get stuck along the way. Life events and relationships can impact the formation of our identity. An early-life trusting relationship, with strong attachments to parent figures and others, can lead to a healthy identity. However, most of us will experience many changes and so face challenges that make the journey difficult.

Trust

Trusting relationships are important in the early development of a sense of self. We feel secure and so can explore the world without fear. Fear causes us to avoid certain challenges and so deprives us of learning and growth. Many get stuck in this process and never grow up. This may lead to the development of disorders that further impact our identity. Gender dysphoria and other disorders are a result of such arrests in development. We see this acted out in superficial behaviours that hide a deeper fear of exposure. We see this characterised in reflections in art and body disfigurement. What is displayed is a reflection of the deeper issues in a person.

Remedy

Jesus came to give us a new identity. He said in Him we are a new creation. The old has past and the new has come. In Him we are secure and free because He takes our burdens and frees us to live life abundantly. He is the source of life and can reverse all that has gone before. Wholeness and freedom result in health and release from all disorders. Come to Jesus today and be set free and regain your original identity in Him.

John Mathai

I was a Consultant Psychiatrist with over 40 years of practice. I have tried to integrate my learnings in Psychiatry with Spirituality. I have a Doctorate in Bible and Theology.

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